10-13-2007
Getting Started With A Butt Plug Tail
Many couples, both gay and straight, find pleasure in anal play–that is penetrating or stimulating the anus during sex. Many couples also find pleasure dominance and submission games. One popular toy that incorporates both pleasures is the butt plug tail. The butt plug tail is a device that is inserted several inches into the anus so that the sphincter holds it in place. The end of the device features the tail of some animal. Submissive partners claim butt plugs produce just the right amount of pleasurable discomfort and humiliation. This article examines butt plug play and teaches you how to get started if you and your partner are interested in giving it a try.Anal sex play is often viewed as the last sexual taboo. Considered nasty by some and incredibly hot by others, it is often one thing that couples feel they cannot discuss. Even if you are involved in a Top/Bottom relationship, you may not feel comfortable introducing the idea of bringing anal play into the mix.
If you are a Top, broach the subject by letting your hand wander between the cleft of your partner’s cheeks during sex. See how he or she reacts to anal stimulation. Does your partner explode with desire or kick you out of bed?
If you are the Bottom in the relationship, you can be even more direct. Print out a picture of the butt plug tail of your dreams and leave it on your lover’s pillow. If your Top is interested in pursuing that route, he or she will take it from there.
Choosing a butt plug tail requires patience and negotiation. Although some sex toy stores have a few butt plugs, most do not offer the elaborate tail you and your partner may be fantasizing about. You’ll probably need to go online to find exactly what you want. One helpful website, www.extremerestraints.com, features a “Bizarre Butt Plugs” selection. For between $20 and $60 you can purchase a butt plug with the tail of a pig, bunny, horse or pony (very popular), fox, or even a peacock.
When you order your butt plug tail, don’t forget to order lubricant as well. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating, and forcing a large object into an unlubricated anus can cause tearing and bleeding which can lead to a nasty infection.
The butt plug is supposed to cause a just-this-side-of-pleasurable uncomfortable fullness in the anus. If your partner complains of real pain, something is wrong. Use more lubricant, encourage your partner to relax his or her muscles, and try again. If the insertion is still too painful, you may need to start with a smaller butt plug and work your way up. Never try to use a homemade butt plug, as materials you find around the home will be hard to clean and sterilize and may even present a danger to your partner such as breaking off inside him or her.
If you are the Bottom in the relationship, it’s important for you to be honest with your Top about the sensations you’re feeling. The butt plug tail can bring up extremely intense physical and emotional reactions. If you feel like the scene is getting out of control or if you can’t take anymore, tell your Top immediately or use your safe word (a word that you and your top have agreed means “stop now”).
Once the butt plug tail is in, there are many games you can play. If you are the Top, use your imagination. Tell your partner to get down on his or her hands and knees and act like the animal whose tail he or she wears. Have your Bottom to do regular household chores while naked and sporting the tale. Many male tops get a charge out of having vaginal sex doggie style with a female partner who is wearing a butt plug tail. Some tops even have their partners go about their daily routines wearing butt plugs under their clothes (although this probably won’t work if your butt plug has a long or a bushy tail).
Once you are finished with your play, sterilize your butt plug immediately according to the instructions and put it away so it will be ready the next time you are in the mood for a scene that requires a tail.
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